Saturday, snowstorm, happiness and a bottle of whisky.

Lump-friend left today, and we had a lovely evening, made soup, had a bottle of wine, some cider and just talked a lot about life, what we would want to do in the future, or more things that are fascinating,and things that are difficult.
Also talked quite a bit about past relationships,good and bad experiences and what we want/need from future relationships to make it work.

Made me think quite a bit about long distance relationships, for well quite an obvious reason.. and hmm, I really don't think it should be nor is impossible to make is work. Of course it requires alot from both, I would claim that more than in a everyday relationship, but I do think that if both people really want it AND belive that it will work, AND see a possiblility to live together in a somewhat near future, then WHY the hell not.. At least i really really want to think so, call me dead romantic or a fool, but i do want to think so.

Yes,people get tempted/attracted to other people and when having you partner very far away, it could seem easier to just say, fuck it..why not. But, well, it really isn't (easier that is). At least if you really care for your partner, and well, yes, it has a lot to do with respect. This all can sound very idealistic. But it is not meant to be. Of course people get maybe tempted easier when partner is far away, but hey, lets face it, people cheat like hell all around us..so in that sense it really doesn't matter. And yes, i am talking from experince, and yes, it did surely suck, so I'm not trying to be an idealistic romantic here. Yes, it is tough, but is it impossible? Hell no! Well, who am I to say..i have fucked up so many relationship so far.

I ended up buying a bottle of wine and a bottle of whisky..just in case..hehe, who am i trying to fool here..yes, the bottle wine will soon enough be in my body and quite probably some of the whisky as well.

Confusing troll once again, or lets say, just filled with thoughts.