Okey Okey so things got sorted out with M. What else can she say that she is very happy about that but also very vulnerable.. isn't that so, that you get easily hurt when you let your gards down? Anyhow, enough about that. She realized today that she has had a great need to talk about ex-partner, as the discussion, for hours and hours, has been about him. She know she had a lot of frustration, anger and even feeling of disgust that needed to come out at some point but she didn't know that they were this strong and they needed to come out this much. She is glad they came out. Should be easier to move on once the feelings are gone from the mind. Well, can't say that they are entirely gone, but at least she feels better.
It is strange how people can be egoistic/egocentric and don't see that everything in life isn't about them. Things happen to them and they have their priorities but that doesn't mean that things wouldn't happen to others as well, while they are out and about. If you can't see the other person, really see and understand how you affect them, then it is a lost game. Really lost. It is exciting to travel, indeed, but if you leave someone behind you have to understand that things also happen in that persons life while you are gone and everything isn't about your trip. Surely it isn't easily done, to always be 100% present while being gone, but in the long run it doesn't take that much to ask the other person how that persons day has been. Just one simple question. But no.
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So how's ur day been? hehe.. Hope things are sorting themselves out slowly, be patient with yourself... and others too I guess :P
hey you :) Nice to have you back, how was the boat and the people? So are you heading out to the sea in the near future again or what is your plan now? Yes, i know, maybe i should be more patient with myself and with people, but sometimes it is hard, especially if you are a passionate nutcase like i am. :) My weekend has been good, very good. But i also get irritated on people on the behalf of someone else. so it doesn't always affect me, the things i write..
:) Boat trip was cool except for one of the crew lol... But the weather was great and we didn't go thru hair raising moments so I guess that's the most important.. Gonna leave an account of the trip tomorrow on my blog, was supposed to do it this afternoon but i got caught in this sunday thing of bein a lazy bum lol..
He he, it's good being lazy, especially sunday lazy. I have been hangover lazy out in the sun all day, Lovely. Looking forward to read about your trip.
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